Prelude
We are now in the middle of a horrible coronavirus pandemic.

Many restaurants, bars, stores, and other businesses have been shut down in an attempt to keep people safe. Everyone who can do so is working from home, and most people are feeling very isolated. During the infrequent times that we need to leave our house we keep at least six feet away from other people and wear face masks.
Back in May we decided that there was no way we would feel safe going on the two New Buffalo, Michigan full week trips we had planned for the summer – one in July and one in August. The house we had rented in August was cancellable, so we cancelled it. The house for July was not cancellable, and we unsuccessfully fought with the property manager to work out some kind of agreement so that we didn’t lose our whole deposit. When that didn’t work we filed a travel insurance claim. However, after a while things didn’t look quite as dire as at the beginning of the pandemic, and we all really needed to get away, so we decided to keep the house for July. We were nervous about it, but figured we could come home early if we found it too stressful being outside of our bubble.
A summer trip (or two) to New Buffalo, Michigan with all of our children and grandchildren has been a family tradition for many years. We usually also have my sister Marla’s family and some friends also join us, and we rent a large house that we can all fit into. New Buffalo, Michigan is a quaint small town just a two hour drive from our house. It has a lovely small downtown area and a large Lake Michigan beach. We always enjoy our stays there.
I have not written a journal about any of the previous trips there because the details of those trips are not very interesting, plus they are relaxing trips and I don’t want the pressure of finding time to write a daily journal. However, it is now a couple of weeks since we got home, and while relaxing on our screened-in porch and remembering our time there fondly I decided that it might be interesting to write about the trip due to the circumstances that our country is in now.
Early in the pandemic our family and Rebecca’s family formed a “pod”, in which both families severely limited visits with outside people and businesses so that we could see each other, including our grandchildren, with minimal risk. We therefore felt comfortable spending a week living together. Unfortunately, Joe lives in the city and was not able to isolate himself as much as the rest of us, so we didn’t feel safe being in very close quarters with him. Not having Joe participate in the trip was very disappointing.
Barbara and I are not going into any stores during the pandemic, even with masks and keeping our distance, so we have been doing our grocery shopping using curbside pickup. This is a new concept where you order your items and pay for them online, and the store brings it out to your car when you arrive. In order to minimize the need to buy food in New Buffalo we did a major grocery shopping at Jewel before we left. We were worried that it wouldn’t all fit in the car, but it did. Rebecca and Ryan will infrequently go into stores during the pandemic so they were able to buy some things once we got to New Buffalo.
The pandemic started in earnest in March, just a couple of weeks after we returned from our trip to Morocco. We had several other trips planned for this year and we cancelled all of them except the one described here. We cancelled trips to Florida, Washington DC, Minneapolis, one of our New Buffalo trips, and a trip to the northeast United States (and part of Canada) to see the fall colors. We also have a trip booked to Egypt in February, 2021 that we haven’t yet cancelled but it is very unlikely that we will go on it.
New Buffalo
We stopped at Joe’s condo on the way to New Buffalo, and had lunch while sitting six feet apart on his garage-roof deck so that we got to see him before the trip.
The drive to New Buffalo was uneventful. The house we rented there was in a relatively new neighborhood called “The Merchant Street Cottages”.

The location is great and the houses are very comfortable. We have stayed in various houses in that neighborhood over the years. There is a very nice community pool there, which is always a highlight of our stays.
The house we stayed at this year, 115 N. Taylor Street, is right next to the pool, which was a big advantage this year.
We were worried that we wouldn’t be able to use the pool because it would mean getting too close to other swimmers who could potentially be carrying the virus. The front porch of our house overlooked the pool (see the picture at the beginning of this journal) so we could tell when the pool was too crowded. It turned out that we were able to use the pool at least two hours each day.
There were usually other people in the pool but everyone was pretty good at picking a corner of the pool and staying away from each other. It was strange and a little stressful at times but it worked (and spoiler alert – nobody got the coronavirus while we were there). One downside of the isolation was that, unlike previous years, our grandchildren did not meet any other children at the pool.
A huge difference between this year and previous years was that we ate every meal in the house. We ordered in some meals and also did a lot of cooking, including barbecuing. The house had a very nice screened-in porch where we ate every meal. It was actually very pleasant doing so, especially since going to restaurants can get tense with three young children.
There were a couple of restaurants that we would walk over to. Our favorite breakfast place there is Dave’s Deli, which is on the main drag (Whitaker Street) and a five minute walk from our house. The inside seating area was closed due to the virus but they had a walk-up window where you could order and pick up your food. This worked out well. We would walk over there, pick up the food, and bring it back to the house to eat.
Another one of our favorite New Buffalo restaurants is Oinks, an ice cream store. As in previous years we went there almost every day. The inside area was open but we didn’t go inside because they also had a walk-up window (similar to Dave’s Deli). They have some picnic tables in the parking lot that we were usually able to sit at while keeping our distance from others. We usually went to Oinks around 4:00, which is a quiet time for them.
Since we weren’t sure if we would be able to keep the kids occupied all day, before we left Barbara bought each child a small gift of an activity or craft for each day. We wrapped them and each day they would pick a gift and open it. It worked out great. The kids were excited each day about getting a present and the gifts kept them occupied for part of each day.
Annie turned seven while were in New Buffalo. Her parents decorated the house with balloons and she got some gifts. We tried to make the day seem special for her even though we were so limited in what we could do. I think she enjoyed her birthday.
We were actually able to do a couple of fun activities while in New Buffalo. We spent a very nice day at the New Buffalo beach. It was not very crowded (unlike during the weekend, when it was ridiculously crowded) and we were able to stake out a spot on the beach close to the water that was far enough from everyone else. We spent a lot of time playing in the water and the sand. In the water we occasionally got within six feet of other people, but survived.
We went blueberry picking one morning at Stateline Blueberries, which was fun. When we got back to the house Barbara made a blueberry pie.
The weather was great and we took a long walk every day. Occasionally, such as when walking over the crowded bridge to the beach, we needed to put on masks to protect ourselves.
Summary
We were hesitant about spending a week away from home during a pandemic. There were definite limitations to what we could do, and the fear of exposing ourselves to the virus was constantly in the back of our minds and was crucial in almost every decision we made that involved leaving the house. However, we made it work and the trip ended up being great. It was wonderful spending time with our family, especially the grandchildren, although we missed Joe.
Here is a link to more photographs from the trip.


























































































